Carah's Blog

Make Others Dreams Come True.

Hey guys!  Sorry I haven't written in a while.  I had been pretty busy lately… but I really wanted to come on here and write a quick blog with my cup of tea by my side.  

A couple days ago a friend and I were talking and I remembered a really important lesson I learned last year.  You know those little Ah-Ha moments that make you feel like you figured everything out… Yeah, it was one of those.  I wanted to come on and write about it.. and also share some love.

So, For about the last year or so… I have been really trying to live by something really important.  The first time I heard this it made so much sense to me and I told myself that I would try my hardest to remember this and live by it when I can.  Thats what I have been doing ever sense.  

Think about those times in your life where something REALLY awesome happens to you.  That time you got your dream job, your dream home, or a scholarship to your favorite school. Think about all the people who went into making that happen. Think about the person that maybe went the extra mile to make it work… or made that extra phone call to make it all come together.  Think about what could have happened if those people weren't involved. EVERY SINGLE dream that you reach doesn't just happen because of you… but because of others as well.  Ever since I read this quote my goal has been to help other YouTubers reach their dreams. Sometimes it's easy to get caught up in the ME, ME, ME of things… Try to switch your mind a little bit and think about what you can do to help OTHERS reach their goals.  Imagine what it would be like if someone took that EXTRA step to help you reach your ultimate dream… it would feel pretty great right?

I wanted to share some love… and let you guys in on some of my FAVORITE youtubers ever.  They aren't huge yet, but they should be…. and I want to help them reach their goals because I know how important their channels are to them.  So, if you feel so inclined… subscribe to them! I think you will love their channels.

RAWBEAUTYKRISTI - 

Okay, This girl is by far my favorite…. and I almost don't want to share because I want her all to myself… lol… JK, kind of. ;)  She is so funny.. real, and just tells it like it is which I love.  I feel like she has a personality that I have always wanted… and I think thats why I like her so much. Is that weird? Her makeup skills are on point.. and she has inspired me more than once with her makeup tutorials.  Its rare to come across someone that does something new and different.. and this girl is that. She does special FX makeup and everyday makeup…. but she is also just really fun to listen to talk. She needs some recognition people.  Check her out and tell her I sent you...

 

BRYE ASHLEY -

This girl strangely reminds me a lot of me…. which when you watch her you will probably not agree at all. lol.  I feel like we vlog the same. There is something about her personally that I completely relate to… I don't know why, but we just vlog the same. haha.  If you like my vlogs you will probably like hers.  She also has amazing makeup videos as well!  Her vibe is a little bit edgy/glam which I also love.  But more than anything… Her story telling videos is where its at.  Her "I shit my pants" video is really what got me hooked. She is a makeup artist, an animal lover, and has amazing decorating skills. She is also closer to my age which is hard to come by in this youtube world..lol. She is just cool… go watch her. :)

BEAUTY MUSE MAKEUP -

This channel I discovered about a year ago and when I first started watching it her passion reminded me a lot of mine and I felt like her channel wasn't getting a fair chance and it made me mad.  So I adopted it and have been trying to grow it ever sense.  This girl is so cute and funny and does some amazing videos.  Her videos are so high quality and nicely edited. I especially love her GRWM vids… I find them relaxing and always watch them when I'm applying makeup in the mornings.  She always does different and fun looks so they never get boring! This is another you tuber that I actually feel inspired by which is rare to find. I mean, look at this picture… not very many people can pull of dark eyes and dark lips. Check her out guys.. I don't think you will be disappointed.

Alright guys… I hope you check out these 3 channels! :) I will probably mention them in my next random faves vid… so those of you who are avid watchers I apologize in advance. :)  Don't forget to let them know I sent you.. and don't forget to hit subscribe if you like them.  Also… Think about what you can do to help someone else reach their dream… :) Let me know in the comments if you have ever gone the extra mile to help someone reach a goal! I would love to hear your stories… Plus they might be inspiring to others!



This Will CHANGE Your Life.

You know those times when you are scrolling through someones Instagram.. and you awkwardly realize you are about a year or 2 deep into their pictures…. Yeah that was me today. BUT… I found this… and it struck me SO hard.. it was like this awakening.  It's the most perfect thing. 

A little less than a year ago, I decided I was going to stop reading hate.  I stopped seeking it out.  It's one thing to come across hateful comments on my youtube videos or twitter… But actively seeking it out is another story. One day I decided that it was bringing me down and it was affecting me too much, and I HATED IT. I am an incredibly sensitive person so I had to make a choice that was best for me. I stopped reading it and going to those horrible depths of the internet where trolls lurk... and my life has been SO MUCH BETTER you have no idea.  Not reading that unnecessary hate made me realize that what those random people are saying officially has NO IMPORTANCE.  If the person they are talking about doesn't hear them… then what they are saying is just going into the universe…. NOT the place they want it most… in my head.  

When I read this quote it took me back to where I was a year ago when I stopped reading. This is something that I would consider printing off and hanging on my wall. It's the most beautiful reminder and something I think everyone should read everyday.

YOUR CHOICES ARE YOURS.  You can do whatever you want with this beautiful life.  You can own your mistakes and own your successes.. thats what makes to so awesome.  If you want to make your life amazing.. It's up to you to do that and no one else.  If someone wants to hate on you and the decisions you make… it doesn't matter because you can feel proud that you have paved the path that you have… and that includes the GOOD and BAD.  I think this is also freeing knowing that making bad decisions is something that you have to own.. and the consequences that come with it is something that you have to deal with.  I'm not saying that it a bad or negative way.. but in a completely motivating way.  It's okay to make bad choices.. but owning them is part of the process of living a better more positive life.

This quote is probably the most motivating and inspiring thing I have read.. and makes me realize that NO ONE can make my life better.. and NO ONE can make my life worse but me.  If someone wants to hate on me and tell me I'm not doing something right GO AHEAD.  PLEASE…. WASTE YOUR TIME…. let that negativity POUR out of your mouth until in infects you own life.  Because at the end of the day… MY choices are what matters… and that means I will live my life the way I want.. and I will do EXACTLY what makes me happy. I will do what i think is best for my kids, I will do what I think is best for my pets, my husband, my family and ME.

Let me know in the comments what your all time favorite quote is!! 


LOGGING OFF!

Ugh… It's been such a weird couple of days for me.  I have always been an internet person.  I have always loved social media and NEVER have been one to complain about it.  If people wanted to whine of Facebook about something.. it never affected me.  I just would scroll past it.  I have never been one to whine on social media either.  Not because I want to show a perfect life, but because I don't really feel like anyone cares about my problems or my depressing day.

Yesterday was the day that started these odd feelings.  It came out of no where.  First was a little joke.  I said something in the vlog that was supposed to be sarcastic and dramatic.. it ended up offending so many people.  I didn't think a title of a vlog was too big of a deal.  I mean… We all do it… we all use a little click-bait here and there… that's Youtube for ya.. lol.  But I got a lot of mean comments about it. My whole comment section was filled with things like. "Hopefully something bad doesn't happen to you… you know how the universe works." "You don't even care about our feelings and that we were worried about your family." "You must be desperate!" "What about all those people who are ACTUALLY DYING!" Usually I can brush off a few mean comments here and there.  But yesterday I felt ganged up on… and it made me want to just NOT sign into my youtube and read anything… and honestly… quit vlogging for a while. So instead of sulking… I went to watch some other videos that I would find enjoyable.  Michelle Phan.. She always makes good inspiring videos.  I LOVED it.  Such a well done thought out video with great ideas.  I left a nice comment about it and decided to read the comments from other people. There was SO much bashing.  So many people calling each other names.  Arguing over every little thing on the planet. Not only that but i personally found the arguments a little petty which is why it got to me even more. People couldn't just watch her video in a light hearted way.  EVERYTHING had to be taken out of context.. taken far too seriously… and made into heavy negativity.  I was already in a bad mood so that just was the icing.  So I moved on.  I started reading an article that was posted on my FB feed about a girl in the public eye who gets scrutinized about her thin frame. As someone who has struggled with anorexia… I HATE body shaming.  I thought this would be a positive article on how we can stop body shaming and make a change.  Again… people weren't looking at it in a positive "Let's do something to change this!" attitude. People were saying things like "SHE DESERVES IT!" and "Eat a burger!"  It was like.. no matter where I went… it was DARK.  No happiness… no uplifting… no support anywhere. 

Today I felt off.  REALLY off.  Travis even asked me what was wrong and I told him I didn't know. I just feel off.  I'm not mad, or sad… just off.  Kind of like I just want to sit and stare off into space, be in my own head and not talk to anyone. (which is kind of impossible as a Mom.. LOL.)  You know when you were a teenager and you would lock yourself in your room to read a book or listen to music, and all you wanted was be alone. Yeah, that's what I wanted to do today.

That's when I sat down at my computer tonight to relax and came across another article on my Facebook feed that someone posted.  "WHY MARRIAGES DON'T WORK TODAY!"  This is the kind of article I roll my eyes at all of the time.  Being stupid I clicked it.  Started reading and realized…. THIS.  THIS IS WHY I FEEL THE WAY I FEEL.  So much unnecessary negativity has been poured into my life the last couple days from stupid stuff on the INTERNET.  I feel like I haven't read ONE positive thing in the last 2 days.  Everyone seems so unhopeful and resentful about LIFE and about the world we live in. It started making me feel like there was no hope for the world… and I have NEVER FELT THAT WAY. I found myself EXPREMELY annoyed with people attitudes.

It made me realize.  There are a lot of cynical people in the world. A lot of people who bully, who blame, who want to tear others down to make themselves feel better. Make others feel sad because they feel sad.  There are so many people who fish for comments with negativity.  I just HATE IT. Yes I complain at times…. I am aware of this.  TOTALLY AWARE.  As you know.. me and Travis have been really trying to change this in our lives. But even though I complain sometimes.. I have always considered myself someone that sees the world through rose colored glasses… almost nieve at times.

I decided that I need to step back.  Not from Youtube of course. I will still be uploading videos for you guys regularly.. and updating twitter and things.  But I think sometimes its important to unplug when you feel affected by people online.  I need to log off.  I need to skip all these constant articles and blog posts people share on my FB feed.  I'm done reading about how your parenting styles are better than mine.  Why you are a better person for eating Organic non GMO gluten free diets. Why you are smarter than me for not vaccinating. Why you have no kids but when you do they will NEVER watch TV.  Why marriages will never work today.  Why you are ruining your kid with an iPad. It's like a dark cloud over our heads ALL THE TIME with every single decision we make.  I wish us as a society lived more light-heartedly.  Didn't take things so serious.  Just let things go.

I guess what I am trying to say is… I'm logging off for a while.  Doing what I DO online and leaving it at that.  :) Have you ever taken a hiatus off the internet? If so why? Let me know your thoughts in the comments!